First Chapter Fridays! Single, Sober, & Serious by Rebecca Benston

Have you experienced a series of bad relationships? Does it seem like you are always a victim of the old bait-and-switch when it comes to dating? Have you grown past the available pool of bachelors? If it seems like you can’t find the right guy, take heart! God has plans for you and they may not always involve having a man in the picture. You need to stop settling for Mr. Wrong simply because you feel the need to have a Mr. in your life. In this book, I give you advice on how to set boundaries for yourself and stick to them! Don’t settle for less than a partner who is willing to do the work that a solid relationship takes. And if you can’t find one, don’t be afraid to do the work for yourself until God sends him your way.

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A great companion to Single, Sober, & Serious is Don’t Be Stupid (And I Mean That in the Nicest Way) by Rebecca Benston. God doesn’t want us to be stupid. He doesn’t want us to take what He has given us and to use it in the wrong way. He doesn’t want us to degrade ourselves. He doesn’t want us to demean ourselves. He doesn’t want us to devalue ourselves. We are made by God. We are His children and as such, we have a right to happiness, peace, joy, forgiveness, mercy and a host of blessings that can span farther than our eyes or even our minds can see. So why do we act the way we do?

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My name is Rebecca Benston. I’m a Christian. I’m a woman. I’m a mother. I’m a writer. I’m a thinker. When I write fiction, I am usually writing a mystery series called The Rona Shively Stories. My P.I. character, Rona Shively is feisty, fearless and fabulous and is usually caught up in something she doesn’t want to be caught up in. In addition to this series, I also have a blog called Higher Ground for Life. Through this blog, I’m hoping to reach women or anyone who is seeking to develop a relationship with God and give them inspiration to get out there and follow His path for their lives!
I also have a blog called Leading the Follower. This one is my favorite. I write about religion, faith, spirituality and all that goes along with it. What we believe, what we don’t believe, what we are told to believe and how society feels about believing in general. I do a lot of testifying here and some of what I say may make you angry. Most of it will make you think. Some of it will make you cry. Any of it could make you laugh. It’s really up to you.

If you are looking for practical advice, honest conversation, and no nonsense observations about living in today’s world, check out my blogs at and and and And if you’re so inclined, you can purchase my books and some other great, inspirational works from Higher Ground Books & Media at

Be blessed!

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