If I speak in the tongues of men or of angels, but do not have love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal.
1 Corinthians 13:1 NIV
In these days when everyone is scrambling for their fifteen minutes of fame, I sit and think about whether or not I want to be a part of any of it. I’m an author…a writer…a hack who likes to share my feelings, perceptions, opinions, daydreams, etc. But in truth, I’m really nothing special without God’s power. And I don’t even think there is anyone that I would want to be if God isn’t a part of the equation. So, it boggles the mind how so many people can be trying so hard to be noticed for who they are when who they are really doesn’t matter if God isn’t a the center of it all.
We all have a story and it is very important that we share those stories with one another. But not so that we can be recognized for the story we tell. The point of sharing what we’ve been through and how we got through it is to bring glory to God. He is, after all, the only reason we make it through any of what we endure. Superstar, Dwayne “The Rock” Johnson used to do a bit whenever he would come out into the WWE ring. He would start talking to whoever he was facing off with and then ask them their name and before they had a chance to answer, he would abruptly say, “IT DOESN’T MATTER WHAT YOUR NAME IS!!!!” This could be the best possible response to any and every person out there who is trying doggedly to get people to notice them and to notice what they are doing. It really doesn’t matter what your name is. It doesn’t matter who you’re wearing, what brand you’re using, who you’re following or who’s following you. I don’t care what you are writing, making, selling, supporting, etc. if the sole purpose of all you do appears to be to bolster your own ego or somehow validate yourself by gaining the acceptance of a culture that has no clue why God is important.
The harsh reality is that no matter how hard we work to be accepted here, in this world, it will never be enough. If our focus is on how many people we can get to “buy” whatever it is that we are putting out there, be it a product or a persona, then we have missed the point. While it is all well and good to promote our work, the point of all we do should be about so much more than how much of ourselves we can get people to buy into. It’s not about us. It’s about using this life, this body, these skills and talents to reach out and help others overcome challenges and obstacles. It’s about seeing someone in need and knowing that if we just take a minute to talk to them or we spend some time showing them a better way to live that we will have used what God has given us in the way that He intended for us to use it. It’s not about a hashtag or getting more likes. It’s not about seeing who can get the most followers or bring in the most money. If we’re not truly reaching out to others, then all we are doing is the busywork of living in Satan’s world. If you’re not Kingdom-building, you might as well be watching paint dry.
Kingdom-building is about talking to that young cashier who’s having a hard day or saying hello to the old man sitting on the park bench as you walk past him to get to work. It’s about stopping to have a conversation with the people around you instead of trying to see how many people we can move through each day without making any real connections. It’s easy to just encapsulate ourselves and act like we don’t notice the people around us. We can all soapbox until the cows come home about abortion, women’s rights, immigration, the economy, and whatever else tends to be the hot topic of the day, but how many of us would be willing to take time out of our busy schedules to seek our opportunities to talk with young girls who are at risk for unwanted pregnancy? Who among is willing to talk directly to women about how they can break free from a cycle of generational oppression? Who is willing to take immigrants into their home to prove the point that love builds no walls? Who would sponsor a single mother for a month or even a year so that she doesn’t have to grovel and jump through the many ridiculous hoops set up by a dysfunctional welfare system? Who of us would set aside our own need to be heard or noticed just to take the time to make a real difference in someone’s life? Would you?
If every person out there took up any one of these causes in this way, the world would be a very different place. It would no longer be about the masses fighting perceived injustices. It would be about each individual person, using the resources that God gave them to show the love of God to one another. Is it likely that we will ever see this in our lifetime? I certainly wish it were. The sad truth is that it is so much easier just to sit back and complain about everyone else’s shortcomings that we’ve almost convinced ourselves that it wouldn’t be worth the effort to take actual initiative to make changes. God never meant for this life to be one big audition for a reality show. He means for us to live it and walk out the principles of His word. He wants us to show Him that we understand what He means when He says to love thy neighbor. He wants you to be an example of His love and grace to the people around you. The more we show Him that we understand how to do this, the more we will begin to see widespread change in this world. This world is not our Creator and we did not create ourselves. All we create is an identity and that identity, if it is to mean anything at all, needs to be rooted and grounded in Christ. Anything else is simply not who we are.
See what great love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God! And that is what we are! The reason the world does not know us is that it did not know him.
1 John 3:1 NIV
My name is Rebecca Benston. I’m a Christian. I’m a woman. I’m a mother. I’m a writer. I’m a thinker. When I write fiction, I am usually writing a mystery series called The Rona Shively Stories. My P.I. character, Rona Shively is feisty, fearless and fabulous and is usually caught up in something she doesn’t want to be caught up in. In addition to this series, I also have a blog called Higher Ground for Life. Through this blog, I’m hoping to reach women or anyone who is seeking to develop a relationship with God and give them inspiration to get out there and follow His path for their lives!
I also have a blog called Leading the Follower. This one is my favorite. I write about religion, faith, spirituality and all that goes along with it. What we believe, what we don’t believe, what we are told to believe and how society feels about believing in general. I do a lot of testifying here and some of what I say may make you angry. Most of it will make you think. Some of it will make you cry. Any of it could make you laugh. It’s really up to you.
If you are looking for practical advice, honest conversation, and no nonsense observations about living in today’s world, check out my blogs at http://highergroundbooksandmedia.com and http://www.ronashively.wordpress.com and http://www.highergroundforlife.wordpress.com and http://www.leadingthefollower.wordpress.com. And if you’re so inclined, you can purchase my books and some other great, inspirational works from Higher Ground Books & Media at http://highergroundbooksandmedia.com.